Mother and son thankful for gift of transplant
- November 27, 2020
This year, Thanksgiving is a holiday that has more meaning to Jean Austin, 62. Despite the COVID-19 pandemic making 2020 a year many would like to forget, Jean will be celebrating a year made possible thanks to a selfless act on love. But what makes the milestone even more meaningful is that her donor was her son Andrew.
Jean Austin-Danner was in her 30s when she was diagnosed with polycystic kidney disease, a genetically inherited condition that causes cysts on the kidneys to grow and take over kidney tissue until the kidneys no longer function. Outside of periodic blood work and visits with a nephrologist, the Ormond Beach, Florida, resident says it didn’t really affect her life.
Growing up, Jean’s youngest son, Andrew Austin, now 29, never realized his mom had a health condition that would ultimately alter the course of his life. “It was a nonissue,” he says.
Then, in 2018, more than two-and-a-half decades after her diagnosis, Jean’s condition began to worsen. Andrew urged her to come to Mayo Clinic, where he was working in the Office of Diversity and Inclusion. Doctors told Jean she’d likely need to begin dialysis or undergo a kidney transplant.
The average wait time for a kidney from the national deceased donor waiting list in the U.S. is five years, but there was another option that her care team mentioned: an organ from a living donor.
And Andrew jumped. “I never thought twice about it,” he says. “I have a bond with my mom that I don’t have with anyone else. I wanted to give my mom a chance to continue living life without the interference of dialysis.”
His mom, however, was a bit apprehensive. “I think donation in any form is one of the more profound gifts one person can give to another,” Jean says. “But as my son, I wanted him to be whole and healthy.”
But Andrew is nothing if not persuasive. “You gave me two kidneys. The least I can do is give one back,” he says to his mother.
Eventually Jean agreed. “Once I understood the significance to him of helping extend my life expectancy and quality, I realized I just needed to graciously accept the kidney,” she says.
On Nov. 26, 2019, she did just that.
While Andrew’s kidney was accepted by his mother’s body almost immediately, the psychological impact on both mother and son was more significant than either expected. “I have a deep sense of what an amazing gift my son gave me. The fact that someone chose to do this for me is an incredible honor,” says Jean.
And though COVID-19 and some unexpected complications put a damper on Jean’s plans for 2020, she and Andrew are finding opportunities to celebrate. The pair marked their recent birthdays together and will commemorate the one-year anniversary of the transplant on Thanksgiving together.
“I try to make each day count,” says Jean.